• Assuming that everyone you meet is either heterosexual or homosexual.
• Supporting and understanding a bisexual identity for young people because you identified “that way” before
you came to your “real” lesbian/gay/heterosexual identity.
• Expecting a bisexual to identify as heterosexual when coupled with the “opposite” gender/sex.
• Believing bisexual men spread AIDS/HIV and other STDs to heterosexuals.
• Thinking bisexual people haven’t made up their minds.
• Assuming a bisexual person would want to fulfill your sexual fantasies or curiosities.
• Assuming bisexuals would be willing to “pass” as anything other than bisexual.
• Feeling that bisexual people are too outspoken and pushy about their visibility and rights.
• Automatically assuming romantic couplings of two women are lesbian, or two men are gay, or a man and a
woman are heterosexual.
• Expecting bisexual people to get services, information and education from heterosexual service agencies for
their “heterosexual side” and then go to gay and/or lesbian service agencies for their “homosexual side” (sic).
• Feeling bisexuals just want to have their cake and eat it too.
• Believing that bisexual women spread AIDS/HIV and other STDs to lesbians.
• Using the terms “phase” or “stage” or “confused” or “fence-sitter” or “bisexual” or “AC/DC” or “switchhitter” as
slurs or in an accusatory way.
• Thinking bisexuals only have committed relationships with “opposite” sex/gender partners.
• Looking at a bisexual person and automatically thinking of their sexuality rather than seeing them as a whole,
complete person.
• Believing bisexuals are confused about their sexuality.
• Assuming that bisexuals, if given the choice, would prefer to be within an “opposite” gender/sex coupling to
reap the social benefits of a “heterosexual” pairing.
• Not confronting a biphobic remark or joke for fear of being identified as bisexual.
• Assuming bisexual means “available.”
• Thinking that bisexual people will have their rights when lesbian and gay people win theirs.
• Being gay or lesbian and asking your bisexual friend about their lover only when that lover is the same sex/
gender.
• Feeling that you can’t trust a bisexual because they aren’t really gay or lesbian, or aren’t really heterosexual.
• Thinking that people identify as bisexual because it’s “trendy.”
• Expecting a bisexual to identify as gay or lesbian when coupled with the “same” sex/gender.
• Expecting bisexual activists and organizers to minimize bisexual issues (i.e. HIV/AIDS, violence, basic civil
rights, fighting the Right, military, same sex marriage, child custody, adoption, etc.) and to prioritize the
visibility of “lesbian and/or gay” issues.
• Avoid mentioning to friends that you are involved with a bisexual or working with a bisexual group because you are afraid they will think you are a bisexual.

From Bisexuality Basics